Thursday, 12 November 2009

A few observations - Toni

Alison and I came to Calcutta with 2 enormous great big suitcases full, for the most part, with resources for Future Hope.  This meant that there was little or no room for clothes - which in turn meant that we would HAVE to go shopping - hurrah!

We were taken to a lovely clothes shop which specialises in 'westernised' Indian clothes and it will come as no surprise to learn that we were easily able to find many things which we just couldn't do without.  The clothes are very comfortable and cool to wear, and fascinating in terms of what goes where - see below.  I have never before worn such tall trousers or looked more like Nora Batty in the ankle area.

The diet seems to be working...

These are BIG girls' trousers

The finished look - note wrinkly ankles.

The school day starts with assembly at 8.00 am - there are 6 x 45 minute lessons until 1.30 pm punctuated with a break for Tiffin at 10.45.  We take in our mugs and are served hot, strong, sweet tea by the Cha Wallah - he makes it in a great big aluminium kettle rather than a teapot of any description.  Those of you that know me well will realise that this is a far cry from the weak and wishy washy Earl Grey that I favour made with lots of skimmed milk - am so in need of a cuppa by then that I actually don't mind too much, but will revert to normal when I am back!

I think I have already mentioned that it is a fairly common sight to see men relieving themselves at the side of the road - even in the most built up areas?  Had a bit of a crisis of confidence today re. what is the correct etiquette when you know the person who is doing the relieving...  One of the little Future Hope boys was peeing at the roadside as I walked by (actually had to step into the road to avoid him) - he was with his little sister and 2 other younger siblings and his Mum. I had my sunglasses on so thought it best just to feign ignorance - I heard shouts of 'Auntie, auntie..' so turned back to be given a big hug by the little girl, but narrowly managed to sidestep shaking the hand of the young gentleman in question... there are limits!

We watched the last episode of Pride & Prejudice last night and decided that a stiff G & T was required to soften the blow of its finishing.  We had forgotten that we still have no bottle opener (where are screw tops when you need them?) Alison remembered being told that you can get a bottle top off by wrapping it in a tea towel and going at it with a spoon.  we were so desperate that we gave it a go - I managed to get a tantalising little shh out of the bottle but that was about all - Alison however was far more determined/desperate and could be heard threatening the cap - 'come on, you're going to come off, so  you may as well come quietly...'

Needless to say the cap was no match for my lovely friend and we were able to enjoy 2 very strong G & Ts - a lot of the tonic ending up on the kitchen floor.  It was worth it!!

That's it for today - tried to upload the most moving video of the kids singing Abba's 'I have a Dream' but sadly it's too big to upload :-(

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Blogger Antonia Keaney said...

doreen 04:09 PM on November 11, 2009
Priceless Toni! Please bring diet sheet back with you, Alison knows full well how badly I need to lose not just inches but a metre or two.
You must remember that G & T's are medicinal as tonic contains quinine, so you just have to have your daily dose of medicine!

Reply Gerry Amy and Dilly 02:07 PM on November 12, 2009
Gerry: "She's a good writer your mum, very fluent, it flows..."
Amy: "I think she's fascinated by boys peeing at the side of the road..."
Dilly: "I like that she stresses skimmed milk!"
We all laughed a lot, lovely blog today and lovely to speak to you earlier - we all miss you a lot and are looking forward to a huge indian feast of rice and curry on your return! Love you loads, lovely trousers... xxxxxxxxxxx

Reply debbie horner 10:17 AM on November 13, 2009
good to see the excellent shopping and to hear that Alison's determination is continuing to be correctly channelled. please do not allow her to buy any hats. We are all fine, the school is still standing (as far as I can tell), Autumn concert on Sunday so entirely stress-free music department....

Reply Sue Lucas 04:18 AM on November 15, 2009
Hi Toni
Have been fascinated by all your incredible news it sounds such an amazing place. Love the trousers but not sure about the local toilet habits! Cant remember whether Ive mentioned the book Shanteram but some of your blog reminds me of parts of it- the beautifully dressed children and their incredible generosity despite having so very little. Anyway take care of yourself and look forward to hearing lots more on a walk when you get back. Hope the family are coping without you

Lots of love
Sue and all the Lucas family
xxxxxxxxxx

Reply Bernadette Allison 04:20 AM on November 15, 2009
Sounds as though you are having an interesting time....certainly keeping busy and enjoying the gin. Probably warmer than here and we could probably spare you some water. Enjoy!

Reply Alessndra 04:23 AM on November 15, 2009
Cara Toni,

stai facendo qualcosa di assolutamente straordinario a Calcutta...
Ho visto il www... รจ bello leggere della vostra esperienza, sentire i vostri racconti, guardare le foto. Vi ammiro molto.


Buona continuazione! E, ancora una volta, brava!

Reply Sue Wigmore 12:56 PM on November 18, 2009
My dear Toni,
I have finally found a breathing space in the hurly-burly of the school week: marking? Pah! Who cares? G&T? Yes please, as long as it's nothing to do with gifted and talented pupils. I was thinking of you as I walked to school this morning: the gale force winds stripping leaves from the trees; the traffic backed up along the Oxford Road, headlights barely piercing the gloom of the morning. How much more colourful it must be in India, I thought to myself.
I'm really pleased that things seem to be going well over there. What a lot of stories you'll have to tell. Which brings me back to that G&T, and listening to them one day while we enjoy a drop of Bombay Sapphire.
I'll be in touch again soon. Duty calls now.
Lots of love to you both,
Sue
P.S. My first blog! (Is this what I've been doing?)

19 November 2009 at 02:43  

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